The End

Every time the year ends, people have some grand idea of what they want to do or be the coming year. Most of the time the things people want is about them and how they can make their life better. I came to the conclusion yesterday that this life is not really about us. It's about others. So maybe we should focus on helping our friends or that one person who really needs help. I am selfish person as well. I always think of me first and the other day a person told me their problems and it made me have have a epiphany. The thing that came to my mind is that we are really here to help others and to help bring them up. My problems are nothing and usually they're meaningless in the big picture of all things. The real purpose of life is to help others, yet we never do. Everything in this life of what we become is all meaningless if we truly never helped anyone indeed. Everything ends, just like us and it made me realize that there has to be a bigger picture than me. Even if you are not religious, you still have to think that there has to be some meaning to life. If there is no point to life, then what is the point to life. I guess that is the hardest thing we will have to experience on earth because we can do whatever we want. We can be bad or we can be good. I don't know sometimes why we are here. I know deep down inside, but sometimes I wonder if I have a purpose or if everything in this life is a coincidence. Yet there probably really is no coincidence because everything is fate and everything that has and will happened, has happened for a reason. Sometimes we don't get what we want and maybe we never will. At times that is hard to grasp, but I have learned that you can't focus on what you don't have. You have focus on what you can do. I think when you forget about you and start to worry about others, that is when life has more meaning. So when you see someone down or see their frown, you have to step up and tell them what you see in them and what their potential can be.......