Sunday, September 26, 2010

observe

I have realized in life that most people don't pay attention. I know that may sound rude, but it's true. They do not observe the others around them and people think I am creepy because I observe and I can figure things out about people by observing. I don't think it's creepy, I think it shows that I care, but I realized most people don't care, they are off into their own world. I am not saying that I always focus on others, but I do notice people, yet I never say anything or try to help them. I do help, but some people are just weird and don't want your help. I often wonder why people do certain things or become a certain way. You sometimes see people that you know decide to do dumb things or things that just don't make sense.

You want to tell them, but you realize you can't because it's not your responsibility to tell them what to do. It is for them to decide, it's their life. Maybe that is how God feels when he sees us doing the wrong things. He wants to help us, but can't because the purpose of this life is to use our own free agency and to see if we will make the right choices.

Even if we do the wrong things or not the best things in life, it's okay because we can always comeback and be better. That is what I observe when I see others. I wonder, but then I realized even they can comeback and we have the power to help them. That is why we have to tell people what we see in them because a few words can change a person's life.